Wednesday, November 10, 2010

A Possible Cure for Premature Ejaculation: Vitamin D

I've suffered with Premature Ejaculation for years. Maybe forever. I'm talking seconds after I penetrate a woman. Oh man, if you suffer like I do, you know the horrible feeling, humiliated, emasculated, not to mention the horrible feeling you can't enjoy one of lifes greatest experiences. It's enough to throw one into a full blown depression.

A couple weeks ago I went for a physical. They did a blood test. Anyway, a few days later the test results came in. They said my cholesterol was way too high and they put me on Lipitor. When I got to the pharmacy, the pharmacist also handed me a prescription for Vitamin D. I did a double take. "They have prescriptions for Vitamin D?," I ask.

"Well this is a 50,000 IU amount," she says. This amount can only be sold over the counter. Anyway, I went away, feeling kind of strange. I take supplements, but apparently my Vitamin D blood levels were way too low.

Anyway, I didn't think much about it, and was really kind of afraid to take it. I didn't take it for a couple of weeks. I did a lot research, talked to people and decided it was safe. My prescription is to take one 50,000 IU pill twice a week. So I took it.

I don't know, maybe a few days later, I had a sexual urge, and I masturbated. Let me tell you my PE has been just as bad during masturbation as it has been with real sex. Maybe a few seconds longer, but still releasing way too fast.

But this time, I kept going and going, really fully enjoying the experience. I had full control over when I decided to ejaculate! I went for maybe 10 minutes, and then I decided to release, but it was completely in my control. And it was so satisfying! Also I felt a sense of being a "man" again. Really great feeling.

Anyway, I thought to myself, "Is it the Vitamin D?" "Could be, but maybe it was just a fluke, a one time deal."

But then tonight, I really needed a release. I went to a sexual vidcam site, Camcontacts, where I used to go all the time, but stopped because whenever things got sexual I would shoot off in seconds, and it just stopped being worth it.

So I thought, "Well, let's put this to a test." Found an attractive girl. I'm shy, so I can never go straight to it. But this was a very sexy, young Russian blond. It just so happens she was a girl I had seem this spring, and of course had a terrible experience, ejaculating in seconds. So finally we get to the sex. And she was totally unclothed and really just unbelievably sexy, getting into it, pleasuring herself to the max. And I was so excited, started pleasuring myself as hard as if I were with her. And damn, I had complete control. We went hard at it for ten minutes. I was feeling so much pleasure, and yet I was in complete control! As a matter of fact she came, and I was still going. Finally after a few more minutes, I decided to cum, since she had, but it was totally my decision when to release. What a feeling! I felt like such a sexual being again! I could tell she was impressed too. It was a totally fulfilling experience. I was in heaven. I came so hard I was spontaneously screaming. Just a very positive experience.

Anyway could it be the Vitamin D? Simple as that? I mean I am way out of shape, 50lbs overweight, I haven't done anything different other than take the Vitamin D and the Lipator. It just occurred to me, I guess it could be possibly the Lipator, but somehow that doesn't feel what it is. I know from study that vitamin d really helps the functioning of the neurons, and I know that low serotonin and other hormones like that affect PE. So, crazy as it sounds, it may be possible.

I Googled Vitamin D and PE, but didn't find anything. I guess I should Google Lipator and PE. I'll do that right now. Well, I don't see anything. I really believe it's the Vitamin D.

Go to your Doctor, get a blood test for your Vitamin D levels. He put me on 50,000 IU twice per week. So ask him.

And from what I've read about Vitamin D, it is great for all kinds of things. It can be toxic, because in reality it is not a Vitamin, but a very powerful Steroid Hormone. So definitely check with your doctor about what is a safe dosage for you. Obviously if you are as low as I apparently am, 100,000 IU a week is safe, or my doctor wouldn't have prescribed it. It may be he will bring me down after my blood content goes up, but we'll see.

Anyway, this is just a theory. It's only been two times, and of course the real test will be when I have a true sexual encounter. And who knows when that will be! But I must say, I do feel very confident, and so I will "get out there" and see if I can meet someone. I'll report on that all important crucial acid test, as soon (if) it happens.

I don't mean to get your hopes up too high, and I hope I'm not jinxing it by writing this, but man, something very real has happened to me, and without all those "exercising the prostate" "squeezing the tip of your penis" "trying the 'stop and go' method, trying to trace the 'psychological' causes etc. which are just a nightmare of effort with no results.

So I encourage you to give it a try, but only under a physicians guidance, and if any of you get the same results as me, please leave a comment and let me know!

Here is the best information page on the internet about the facts and benefits of Vitamin D. It's by Steve Gibson. There's also a podcast in which he talks with Leo Laporte about what he's found in his personal research. If nothing else, I highly recommend you listen to this podcast. He doesn't talk about PE, but it is fascinating to hear what he has to say from his research. It was this podcast that got me to taking my prescription not even thinking about PE.